Sad Love 60....

Love doesn't walk away, people do.

Men were born to lie, and women were born to believe them. -Sex and The City

Because he has been a major part of your life, of course you'll miss him; it's perfectly normal. It's like getting a tooth pulled out; after the dentist pulls it out you're relieved. But how many times does your tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was? Probably a hundred times a day. Just because it was hurting you does not mean you don't notice it. It leaves a gap, and sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. It's going to take awhile, but it takes time. Should you have kept the tooth? No, because it was causing you pain. Pulling the tooth was the right decision, but it's going to hurt.

No one will ever love you as much as I do. Why isn't love enough?! -Closer

A broken heart should be visible. Something that hurts that much should not be hidden. The pain, much worse than broken bones, knife wounds, gunshots, chemotherapy, tumors or boils, should be swathed in long, white bandages. The wounded should appear on crutches or in a wheelchair for their heart. Then people would know. They would recognize the injured, they would see the damage and understand, care offer, a kind word. Love is so much like war and a relationship only one long seige, the defenses going up and down as the fortune changes the allies transfer. Couples should wear combat uniforms. The would be bright and freshly ironed in the first days of romance. Then the material would become stained, begin to fray. We would lose a button or two. Anyone looking at us would know where we were, how far we had come. Only the shiny epaulet still attatched, but somehow a symbol of hope. We would emerge victorious. -Diane Wagman, Bump

Sometimes it's hard to know what's real when you're not, 'cause you know I change myself to impress whoever happens to be next to me, but I'm sick of trying so hard. -Armor for Sleep

You think that you can use up your love. I think you can blow it all on one person. You can love so much, so deeply, that there is nothing left for anyone else. -Tony Parson

I felt something catch in my throat, a sudden surge of sadness that caught me unaware. It almost managed to take my breath away. That was the thing; you never got used to it. You never got used to the idea of someone being gone. Just when you think it's okay, and you think you've accepted it, someone points it out to you, and it hits you all over again, and it's just as shocking as the first time.

And I'm worried...I, I'm afraid that he took away my ability to believe. And I hate him for that. Because I always believed before. And now I just feel...lost. And I am, I'm trying to put myself out there, but... I feel hopeless. - Sex and the City

There's one thing I have to say so I'll be brave
You were what I wanted, I gave what I gave.
I'm not sorry I met you,
I'm not sorry it's over,
I'm not sorry there's nothing to save.

It was a catch-22: if you didn't put the trauma behind you, you couldn't move on . But if you did put the trauma behind you, you willingly gave u your claim to the person you were before it happened -Jodi Picoult, The Tenth Circle

The sad fact is, most people don't look beneath the surface until it's too late. -Wendelin Van Draanen, Flipped

And believe me I did not want that because I had a good life before you. Well, not good... but... it was okay. Well... it was empty actually, but at least I was blissfully unaware of how miserable I was. Where as now... because of you... I am acutely aware of how completely and totally unhappy I am. Thank you for that. - Failure to Launch

Forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.

I'm not crying right now because I don't want you to leave.
I don't, by the way.
I'm crying because I thought
that I could be the one who could change your mind ...
I guess I just thought that
I was a good enough reason for you to stay.

I've seen enough now to know that beautiful things don't always stay that way. I've done enough now to know this beautiful place isn't everything they say. -Good Charlotte

And sometimes... we can fall in love with someone for all the wrong reasons... and still love them even after all the hurt because well... sometimes and most times.. we cant pick who we love. And even though we know we shouldnt love them we do.. and always will.. because there are just a small number of people in this world who will "get" us for reasons we cant explain.. even when they shouldnt and even when time has elapsed since we've last talked -Arminda Meer

There were times when he caught me, but there were more times he let me fall and finally it came time for me to learn that I could pick myself up off the ground, and walk away.

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